Saturday, August 9, 2014

Life with Triplets: Week 3

Tuesday morning bright and early was another doctor's appointment. The girl's regular 2 week check up! Sophia finally reached her birth weight, 6 lbs. and 14 oz.!!! She also grew to 19.75 inches. She was 13% weight on the standard newborn growth chart. Meredith was 6 lbs. and 7 oz. and had grown to 19.5 inches, putting her at 6% weight category. Our tiny Miss Penelope was now up to 6 lbs. and 3 oz. and 19 inches in height, coming in at only 3% on the weight chart. So many triplet moms have talked about how their preemies are not even on the standard newborn scale until they start to reach adjusted age marks, I was very relieved that at only -3 adjusted we are actually on the newborn charts. Meredith's murmur was very slight and Penelope's was still pretty loud. I forgot to ask again about Synagis, the nurse from before said to make sure I brought it up each visit. The girls are currently drinking 90 ml for Sophia, 70 ml for Meredith, and 80 ml for Penelope. I did have to do postpartum depression questionnaire and scored as being depressed. Some days I feel it and others I don't. After the girl's appointment I took Issy for his allergy shots and to have a special lunch out with mommy. I have officially mastered pumping and driving the pick up truck. We also went by my husband's work where his company had collected some things for us. We got a huge bag of bibs and adorable matching outfits. They also gave us 2 cases of diapers and a case of wipes! Tuesday evening Caroline from our church brought over a delicious Chicken and Rice with broccoli.

Wednesday was by far the best day I have had at home since the girls came home. It was a no visitors and a spending quality time together kind of day. We all got some quality bonding time in. We really need many more days like today.

Thursday morning was relaxing at least! I took Issy with me when I went to my doctor's appointment and to run some errands. His attitude today was horrible. I had a long talk with him about it. My incision has 2 spots that are healing funny from where I did too much and haven't followed doctor's orders to take it easy. I was told to have my hubby scrub the 2 areas daily with peroxide in addition to continuing lotrimin and dry sanitary pads on the area. We then drove all the way to Wilson from Raleigh to pick up a hospital grade breast pump. I got that and headed over to Joy's house to pick up the dinner she made. I figured since I was in town I would save her the 25 minute drive out to deliver it to us. Her baked ziti was awesome. I haven't had ziti in at least 10 years. I had forgotten how wonderful it is! She also sent us home with a frozen lasagna!

Friday night was rough. The girls started fussing around 2:30 am. I got up and pumped at 4 and stayed up until 5:30 to help Jerimiah finish up his feeding of the girls. I was hoping to sleep in for a while, but my mother-in-law came in and woke me up to let me know we had an unexpected visitor. I love visitors, but really would appreciate people calling first and making sure its a good time. I can assure you Friday morning, after the night we had, would not have been a very good time. I got up and was sociable though, at least as much as I could be in my sleep deprived state. I got up and worked on dishes while I prepared lunch plates for everyone. We ate lunch and I was just getting ready to head to bed when we had another unexpected visitor. At this point I decided I was going to give up on the idea of having a nap. Natalie said we need to put her "By Appointment Only" sign back up, and I am inclined to agree with her. Natalie had brought home dinner, generously provided by Chick-fil-a of Wilson. I dove into a nice big pile of nuggets and Polynesian sauce. It totally hit the spot. After dinner Natalie took the boys to her parents for a sleepover and so she could get a full night sleep since she had to be at work at 5:30 am. I took off to Wilson to pick up some donor breast milk someone had offered us. It had to be about a thousand ounces. I was amazed at such a generous offer! Friday night me and Jerimiah were on or own with the girls. I really expected the night to go badly, but Jerimiah stepped up and was so amazing with them.

Saturday morning was just us and it was nice. I got up after my 10 am pumping and Jerimiah tucked me back in for a nap after my 1 pm pumping session. He also got dishes done and ran laundry and did an amazing job with the girls. He had gotten them up for the day and dressed and everything! We watched several episodes of Criminal minds spread out throughout the day, in between napping and feeding and pumping! I realized Penelope is still our loud and fussy one. She might be the smallest, but she intends to be the first at everything, especially meal times! Lynn and her husband from our church brought out an amazing shepherd's pie and apple crumble. I haven'e eaten that much in quite a while. Natalie decided to spend another night at her parents and so they kept the boys over there again.

Saturday night was bad. Just going to leave it at that. If there is another night like Saturday I will be giving up pumping. I cannot pump and care for the babies. It's just but enough time for sleep. Sunday I tried to sleep must I'd the day to make up for not sleeping Saturday night.

Monday I was still playing catch up, but we needed groceries. I went to the grocery store and post office. I hurt so bad afterwards. I lifted and bent too much at the store and loading the truck. It felt really good to be up and moving around though.

I am really thankful that everyone wants to come see us and make sure we are ok, but 1 baby is tough, we are swaddling with 3! Please give us a call first, we nap at certain times and limit company during other times due to the babies' or our toddler's naps.

Sunday, August 3, 2014

Week 2 with the Triplets

Monday night the girls had a terrible time with tummy issues. Natalie was amazing helping so much with the girls while I focused on pumping and resting. Tuesday morning bright and early we had to pack up and trek up to the doctors office. We barely made it out the door on time with 3 of us working to get ready. The girls had a great appointment. Sophia was back up to 6lb 4oz, Meredith was up to 5lb 11oz, and Penelope was up to 5lb 10oz! Sophia's murmur was completely gone, you could barely hear Meredith's, but Penelope's was still pretty loud. Sophia has a clogged year duct we need to clean and massage regularly. Overall Dr. Oneal gave a great report for all the girls. She said Sophia is strong enough to start trying to latch and nurse twice a day for up to 10 minutes at a time. Penelope and Meredith needed to put on a little more weight and start drinking more first. Sophia eats about 60-70ml, Meredith 50-60, and Penelope about 40-50. Rebecca the lactation consultant was absolutely wonderful to work with. She showed me cues and such to determine good times to practice latching. She also said to switch to wide nipple bottles (playtex being the closest) to help them adapt to latching easier. She said we need to take the bottle out of their mouths every "break" and/or 10 or so sucks to help them adapt to working harder at the breasts. After the doctor's appointment Natalie met us and took the girls home while Sue and Allen took me to my doctor's appointment and lunch. It did Allen and me such good to have lunch and special mommy time. I got my staples out the doctor said there was a little bit of yeast infection on the incision at a couple of points. He also chastised me because I tore the staples in a few spots from overdoing it and lifting too much.

Allen is so fascinated by his sisters. He constantly wants to hold them and kiss them. Can't wait for Issy to get home and spend time together.

Wednesday was supposed to be a quiet down day where we were just going to be home and resting. Unfortunately we ended up having company most of the day. I love seeing family, but we really just needed a day of rest and normalcy. It was exhausting and draining. Allen did get to go swimming with grandpa and Natalie and it was heart warming to see, since I missed the entire summer in the hospital.

Thursday I was so glad for peace and quiet. Natalie had to work, so my mother in law came and helped with the babies. It was a down day where we just stayed home and rested in between baby care and pumping. My amazing friend Pam dropped off a ton of freezer meals from her and some of the other MOPS ladies. Between that and the meal train we have been so blessed.

Friday morning was another baby doctor appointment. Sophia was up to 6lb 7 oz (+3oz), Meredith was up to 5lb 15oz (+4.5oz), and Penelope was up to 5lb 13oz (+3oz). Meredith and Penelope have both exceeded their birth weights now! Sophia still has a clogged eye duct, but no infection. Sophia eats about 70 ml, Meredith 60, and Penelope about 60. He said that we need to have the girls seen Tuesday, but after that if all links good we don't have to come back until their 1 month appointment! Friday night Natalie went home to stay and get a good night sleep and my mother in law stayed the night to help with feeds and baby care so I can pump and sleep.

Saturday morning my friend Morgan and her friend Casey came out and did newborn photography of the girls. I was amazed at how smoothly things went. It was way easier and quicker than I thought it was going to be. Felicia and Dilip bright Issy back home and visited for a few hours. The older boys played video games and the toddler boys played so well together. The adults all had the babies so it worked out nicely. Katie and Brian brought us dinner through the meal train and it was so nice. Issy is completely in love with his sisters too. Saturday night I had an emotional night. The high from birth and being home wore off and I was left feeling very down and depressed. I hate pumping milk every 3 hours. I hate being so sore and tired that I can't care for my babies. I hate not being able to pick up my toddler. I am not very nice when I am hurting and tired. It was so bad I didn't even want to hold any of my girls. I feel like such a bad mom for even admitting that. :( I really hoped post partum depression was going to pass me by completely.

Sunday morning Natalie offered to keep the girls so we could make it to church. It was so nice to see everyone and get out of the house. Penelope lost her umbilical cord while we were gone. We heard a great message about shepherding our children. I have the book he referenced during the sermon, but haven't read it yet. I definitely want to read it now. After church I pumped while Jeremiah ran in Target for some things. We ate at Olive Garden and had a nice lunch out. I also ran in the Teeter for a few cold things we needed. It was a nice day and getting irt really made me feel so much better. Natalie got out of the house for a while after we got back home. I think done time or did us all some good.

Monday was mostly a down day, which we needed after a very long night. Penelope and Sophia took turns crying all night long. Not sure what has them so upset, but at some point one baby (I can't even tell you which one) ended up in my bed and Natalie took the other so we both could get a little sleep. We had unexpected visitors show up again. It is so frustrating when we are all sleep deprived and people just show up without letting us know they are coming or calling to see if it is a good time Monday night Lisa had her son deliver a meal from our meal train. She made its pork tenderloin with potatoes and a veggie casserole. It was wonderful. Jeremiah and I ate alone because my in-laws took the little boys out to see Planes 2. Both of my boys had a wonderful time.

I would be completely lost with out my mother-in-law and sister-in-law. Sue and Natalie have done so much and I love them sooo much and thank God for them every single day.